Heat 1tbsp ghee in a medium saute pan; fry cashews/ almonds and raisins until golden. Remove and keep aside.
Add another 1tbsp ghee to the same pan and add carrots and sooji. Cook them stirring constantly until carrots are slightly cooked, about 4-5 minutes.
Next add the milk, cover and cook on low flame until carrots are cooked through.
Add sugar and cook the mixture until it starts to thicken a little bit.
Finally add the ground cardamom and fried cashews and raisins.